Hello Family and Friends-
Things over here continue to be busy and all of a sudden my first Mother's Day is upon me. Sad but true, the only thing I really want is to get some sleep!!
I had a "first time mom" moment the other day that I thought I would share with you all. I can laugh now and I hope you all get a chuckle out of it as well.
It was time for the weekly trip to Trader Joe's so I courageously buckled up Nico in his
car seat and off we went. This was the first time that I was attempting a trip to the grocery store with a baby. As I parked the car, I began to realize that I wasn't quite sure how to place the
car seat in the shopping cart. Nico was being a good boy and had fallen asleep but I knew that if we didn't keep moving he would wake up. So I got him out of the car and found a cart that was close by. I set the
car seat into the cart. I had seen plenty of moms shopping peacefully with their babies before so I figured the placement of the
car seat would be so simple. WRONG! I couldn't figure out how to securely set the seat into the cart. As I am struggling to figure it out, I begin to feel like a complete idiot. Nico, of course, is starting to wake up. Okay, I need help, quick. I get out my cell phone and call Tami. It's 5 of 5. Call Tami at work. Voicemail. Call Tami on cell phone. Voicemail. Call Tami at home............You guessed it, voicemail. So there I am, in the middle of the parking lot, vigorously rocking Nicolas back and forth with one hand and desperately calling for help with the other hand. I look up and realize that there is a man on his cell phone right in front of me laughing and giggling. Not only that but some lady thinks it would be okay to try and pull into the spot that I was occupying with my cart and
car seat. Hello. Can't you see I have a baby and I'm having issues??She apparently didn't care and was annoyed at me for getting in her way.......meanwhile there were several vacant parking spots nearby.
Anyways, I never figured out how to securely place the
car seat on the cart so I abandoned it. Feeling totally
humiliated, I contemplated
turning around and going home. No, can't do that.........need food! So I took out the good
ol' double stroller. As I walked into Trader Joe's I wondered how in the world I would fit a week's worth of groceries into a little basket and my 2 reusable bags. Miraculously, I got almost everything on the list and my biceps got a really good workout! I happened to run into a lady who had successfully placed her baby's
car seat on the cart. (or so I thought) I swallowed my pride and asked her how she did it. As she answered, I could tell she had been under quite a bit of stress with this task as well! She wasn't even a first time mom! She had three little ones with her and she admitted she still couldn't figure out how to do it! Man, did I feel better after talking to that lady......Thank you, lady at Trader Joe's with three adorable boys!
On a
side note, Nico loved being at the store. He sucked on his
paci with his eyes open wide taking in all of the new sights and sounds. He behaved himself until we got to the checkout line, which was fairly long. He began to cry and it was quite amusing watching the lady behind me try to make silly faces at him as I ran to get some 2 Buck Chuck.
As I walked out of the store with almost all of the food I had come for I realized that I gained all of the confidence back that I had left in the parking lot!
A friend emailed me this video............I got a good laugh out of it...........I'll take all the props I can get at this point!
http://news.cnnbcvideo.com/?nid=apNguXw4GN7OhCVcagpNzzUyMzk2OTQ-&referred_by=15465307-srb1Yyx&p=moveonHugs and more pictures to come soon-
Rebeca